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Hiring a Belly Dancer for Your Orlando Wedding Reception Entertainment?
Every wonder about hiring an elegant, fun, and dynamic belly dancer for your Orlando Wedding Reception Entertainment? Entertainment choices can mean the difference between a boring wedding reception...
Costuming Checklist for Belly Dancers
As a Professional Belly Dancer and designer in Orlando with Bellydance By Jennifer Inc., the subject of costuming is huge when it comes to performance. After a few headaches, I decided it would be...
Bellydance By Jennifer Inc: How to Edit Your Belly Dance Music
Ok everyone I wrote this blog because there are still a large volume of dancers who do not know how to cut their own music and thus becoming frustrated with having to rely on someone else to do it...
I Have a Dream…
As the elections have come to a close and America has chosen to once again vote for Obama, what a triumph it is to have a black president elected for not one, but two terms. This has become a...
Inappropriate Cyber Etiquette with Belly Dancers
I don’t know about you, but Bellydance By Jennifer Inc. has had ENOUGH with inappropriate comments via cyber space. The internet is a wonderful thing; one can market and promote their abilities via forums, social networking sites, blogs, and video to name a few.
There is a very dark side though, the side that does not appear publicly for others to see by way of inappropriate pm’s (Bhuz), DM’s (Twitter), inbox (Facebook), email, text, and Youtube Messages.
While the vast majority of private messages I have received have been overwhelmingly positive (and at times made me tear up with happiness), there is a small percentage that have been made by men and cyber stalkers who send sexualized, offensive and inappropriate comments. Just one of these is enough to throw one over the edge, and as a belly dancer it seems that my profession attracts these perverts.
No matter how classy and sweet one portrays themselves online, being a woman and a belly dancer seems to call the attention of some men who feel that it is ok to tell us how sexy they think we are, or that we should show more skin, or come away and dance for them…ugh!
If you cannot say it in real life to my face or publicly on the internet then do not say it! It is disgusting etiquette to throw these comments out to someone. Your sexualized, inappropriate comments strike me and many others who deal with these people offensive.
This is an art form. If you cannot say it to another serious profession then what makes you think you can say it to us? Personally I do not like any man other than my boyfriend telling me that I am sexy or anything else above that. Have respect!
That is enough for toniight. Have you ever been cyber stalked? Gotten a text from someone you did not know wanting you to dance or meet them somewhere? Unwanted private messages to where you had to block the person because it made you uncomfortable? Many of us have. So what should we as a community do to prevent this and educate?
Please leave your comments below and let Bellydance By Jennifer Inc. know your story.
Belly Dance Roll Down- Jennifer Style!
After numerous messages and discussions here is a nice blog post with video to go over this challenging approach to a belly roll down… Bellydance By Jennifer Inc. style! It is not something that once can learn in a day it takes a lot of time and patience and no matter what size you are, with determination, the muscle control necessary can be developed.
The first section of the video goes over drill #1 which covers isolating the top half from the lower half of the abdomen.
Drill #2 follows showing a 6 step approach to the roll down with the tightening of the ab muscles one section at a time from upper abs to lower abs, and finally a pelvic squeeze.
Drill #3 goes over my stylistic choice of pushing out the ab muscles from top to bottom
and finally the ab muscle are reeled in from top to bottom in a much more gooey and relaxed fashion.
This roll down is about dynamic muscle movements, discipline, and concave and round shapes that are made utilizing nothing more than the abdomen. Enjoy and send me all your questions in comments in the comment box below. Muah!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2UyUlKKyoY
Is the Rhinestone on Your Bellydance Costume the Real Deal?
The Skinny on Competitions
A heck of a month…
Belly Dancing for a Colombian Wedding in Kissimmee
I finally had the pleasure of belly dancing at a wedding in Kissimmee that was of Colombian heritage a few weeks ago! I am of Colombian descent, and it is no secret that belly dance is not as popular in my country as it is in others.
This wedding featured a lovely bride names Maricel who wanted to surprise her new husband with a fun and elegant belly dance performance for their wedding reception.
Of course, true to my style, the bride loved how my shows are custom designed to fit the wedding colors, my impeccable taste in music that fits the event and the heritage of the crowd (I ended it with one of our countries fiery romantic favorites “Fruta Fresca”) and my sense of humor and dance style.
The show was a huge hit at the Kissimmee wedding reception and it was such a treat to finally get a request from a fellow Colombian as it is not the norm by any stretch of the imagination in my country.
Here are some photographs I just had to share by Jason Azcarate (the brides talented son). Thank you for choosing me to share this spectacular night belly dancing for your Kissimmee Wedding!
12 Months in a Year….So Why are Workshops a Week Apart from One Another?
I hope this does not cause too much of a stir but as an Orlando belly dancer I know if I am feeling the discomfort then others probably are too… The belly dance community is growing stronger and becoming more popular offering more opportunities for events and workshops where this art form can be enjoyed by the masses. On this point I commend the large increase of workshops becoming available.
On the other hand with soooo many new belly dance events springing up and SOME promoters not working with other event hosts, there is a big discord on workshop dates. As a dancer and regular attendee of events/workshops this creates a stressful issue.
For example: say I know my favorite dancer is coming for a workshop in May, then my second favorite is coming two weeks later at another event, and then there is a competition/workshop weekend the week after, there is a big problem here! Why? Because of this:
A: These workshops all cost money, and being so close together the majority of dancers will probably have to pick and choose and not be able to attend one of their favorites workshops.
B: There is not enough time to prepare. Let’s say your invited to dance at all 3, your expected to put on a fabulous performance for all three and sometimes with life it gets a bit too busy some seasons to properly prepare for all.
C: It is a bad example for the belly dance community when event sponsors get negatively competitive with each other instead of working together. If they can work together and set appropriate dates that don’t step on each others toes, we would all win.
-This is a business I know and I bow down to the event hosts who put these events on because it is a TON of work, but realize you will gain more if students have enough time to reccuperate cash flow in between and then they do not have to sacrifice more than they need to. Also it strengthens the community 10 fold when you can get a long 🙂
Honestly having a ton of workshop options is a blessing, but please hear our cries, we WANT you to get along, we want workshops to be schedules with enough time apart to recuperate, we want your amazing festivals and instructors to have a good turn out, we want for the big events to continue for the long haul and not wither away, we want to put on amazing shows for each, we want to see our friends be able to come with us to these workshops.
Ok that is my rant, love belly dance, appreciate all the hard work form sponsors but please, let’s work together and put on belly dance workshops and events without the extra stress! Love ya! From your Orlando belly dancer Jennifer 🙂
Is It Belly Dance? Views on Fusion
The other day I read an article written by on the subject on fusion and confusion and whether it was deemed to be belly dance or not. There are some very strong feelings on this matter and while I will share my own on the subject, there is no right or wrong, and all thoughts are respected.
How to Measure Cup Size and Translate to a Costume Bra
Hi Everyone! I have been busy busy busy working on costumes for dancers and here is one issue that is common pertaining to bra size and fit that I think will help some dancers and aspiring costume makers out there who are looking to make or buy a great fitting costume bra.
This is my first Vlog and will be uploading more on a regular basis. Please post your comments, question, and if you need any explanations comment directly onto this post. Thanks and talk to you all soon!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KL1ik_svKs&list=HL1338585000&feature=mh_lolz
For reference here at photos taken from BHUZ on how to measure your bra CUP appropriately. Here is the link to the thread and the photoagrphs by Bhuz user Jewels if you a are a member of BHU you can view the thread..